Evaluate your relationship
Why are you breaking up ? Make sure you never break up with someone in the heat of the moment, like during a fight. Always take time to analyze things. Think of why you want to break up with her. Take time and think of all the reasons you have for breaking up.
Can it be fixed ? If its something new talk to your partner first and discuss the matter. If you have and the same thing keeps happening then breaking up with him/her might be the only way to fix it.
To avoid having regrets after, be sure of what your doing. Make sure there are no misunderstandings that could be resolved by talking. Also be sure of what your doing, otherwise, the other person will feel your uncertain and will only cause more drama and more time to get over.
Make plans
If you have decided and are 100% sure you want to break up with her/him then you need to make some plans. Expect "the talk" to last about an hour. She will ask you why so be prepared to answer that. Emphasize things that are not working out rather than things that are wrong with her. Tell her you though about it and are sure about this decision.
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